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Anger is not a feeling - It is the expression of a feeling

Wednesday, 18 March 2020

Anger almost always sits on top of existential disappointment. Disappointnent has two components: "it's not fair'' and "im sad." The "it's not fair"...

Is the 'True Self' a useful concept??

Wednesday, 18 March 2020

Is therapy really about 'actualising our true self?' as the humanistic tradition asserts? The concept of a true self would, in fact, invalidate therapy:...

Why do talking therapies work?

Thursday, 1 August 2019

This is a fascinating and contentious subject, and not every therapist either works the same way, or has the same theory about why psychotherapy works....

Talking about sex Is difficult!

Saturday, 6 July 2019

Talking about sex with my partner is so difficult!  The reason for this is no surprise:. When sex is working, we don’t generally see the need to talk...

When sex stops: can counselling help?

Wednesday, 5 June 2019

It is common in long-term relationships for sex to become infrequent, unsatisfying or stop completely - more common than most people realise. Trying...