Restoring sex, desire & intimacy
Most couples run into issues with sex, a normally tricky part of a relationship, at some stage. If sex has become infrequent or stopped completely, or become less fun, its worth looking at the reasons why.
You may be feeling more generally disconnected from your partner, less playful, and find sex feels out of context.
You may be feeling resentment, which make the prospect of sex remote.
The head-rush of passion you used to feel for your partner may have gone (even if you love them).
You may be be asking - how can I have sex without strong feelings of desire ? Or - can you get that level of desire back?
Maybe you are aware you want sex more than your partner. Or maybe you feel ‘switched off’ from sex yourself.
You may be aware of sexual desires that you feel would be unacceptable to your partner.
I believe that the vast majority of relationships run into these problems,, but most couples find talking about it is either difficult, or leads to a row.
I will work with you, to show you
- how to get back to having fun together
- how to rediscover an erotic spark
- how to avoid dutiful sex, or the feeling that sex is just another chore.
- how to talk about sex
- how to think about sex differently
Sex can be great - a fun, exciting and fulfilling part of your relationship, even if you’ve been together for years, leaving you feeling more loved-up, satisfied and content.