Read 'The Sandwich Years' in Simply Women and Home.
Read about audio porn in Women's Health.
Read an interview with James in the Marylebone Journal
Conference paper
The Romantic Myth Of Making Love
Delivered to the UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy) Conference in Dec 2018.
In this paper I argue that the romantic idea of sex as an expression of love, leads, very often, to a sense of confusion, frustration and failure in couples. I explain why this idea doesn’t work, why we nonetheless hang on to it, and propose a slightly different way of thinking about sex in long-term relationships.
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Linkedin essay on the erotic
