Articles

I have written for Liz Earle Wellbeing on sex, relationships and psychotherapy.

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I have written for Newsweek on dating and cheating.

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Here is a piece I posted on LinkedIn about eroticism entitled 'Why do some things turn us on? '

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Read an interview with James in the Marylebone Journal

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The Romantic Myth Of Making Love

Delivered to the UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy) Conference in Dec 2018.

In this paper I argue that the romantic idea of sex as an expression of love, leads, very often, to a sense of confusion, frustration and failure in couples. I explain why this idea doesn’t work, why we nonetheless hang on to it, and propose a slightly different way of thinking about sex in long-term relationships.

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